Back in June my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me it was with this girl he knew online , anyway I got into his e mails and found out they had been meeting and stuff. I told him everything I found and he said he had slept with her and it was a mistake, and after him crying/begging/being on my doorstep every night I agreed to take him back because I do love him and I couldn't just drop 3 years. But now when we fight I just throw it in his face, or if he says he can't see me because he has to work late , I will say something like " oh going to f**k another girl behind my back?"or we will be laying in bed and he will ask for a back massage and I will say " no get your whore to do it for you"
i do it all the time... why can't I drop it :( I know I'm being super nasty but I just need him to know how hurt I still am
what can I do to forget ?
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Go to a garage sale, buy a bunch of $0.10 dishes.
Write your anger / frustration / bad feelings on them
SMASH THE MOTHER F***ERS! Throw them on the ground, slam one against a tree, huck that b**** off the empire state building.
In all seriousness, this will start the healing process because you can voice your opinion without taking those points to him. NOW! When you cool off and get the steam out of your way, approach him and be like "Look, I'm still hurting, what can we do to fix this?"
If he is a real man, he will be shocked you approached him and he probably won't know what to do; however, he will give it a chance and work things out with you. If he doesn't it isn't the biggest deal like some other people will say, simply find some way to talk with him. He is hurting too.
My ex cheated on me with my best friend- the only way I healed was to leave the relationship. I understand you care about him like I cared about her, but sometimes that is the only way to lead a successful + happy + fulfilled life.
Do what is best for yourself, and give that dish one hell of a throw for me,