Answer. I think that guys are expected to accept women's imperfections more than women are to accept men's. If a guy is fat, unattractive and/or broke no one ever encourages women to give them a chance ever, but if a woman's unattractive , fat and/or broke, society expects men to look past that you , know "oh maybe she has a light up the room personality" . You even have the terms "Big and Beautiful" "more cushion for the pushing" to try to encourage men to like big women, but never do you hear anyone encouraging women to like men who are fat unattractive and/or broke. The only time I see a obese guy with a woman is if he's rich and/or famous or if the woman is also fat.
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Women tbh. Men are always like WHY WON'T YOU DATE ME!!! I'M NICE!!! Even though they have like 349857439857498357 flaws, they expect women to accept all of them blindly because supposedly, they're "nice" and that's all that matters. Like it doesn't matter that the guy is insecure, manipulative, self-entitled, has hidden intentions and cries when he doesn't get what he wants. He's NICE. Even some Disney movies perpetuate this idea, such as Beauty and the Beast. Beast is a straight up asshole when Belle meets him, and she then basically spends the entire damn movie trying to fix him up and "lure" some niceness out of him. This, all while completely ignoring/accepting the fact that 1. he's an asshole, 2. he kidnapped her father, 3. then basically kidnapped her and held her hostage, 4. tried to force her into obeying his little "rules" etc etc.
Men's flaws are constantly swept under the rug by statements such as "boys will be boys", like it's expected that a guy will behave a certain way that technically isn't right, but in the end is excused because he's a dude who's like totally allowed to act like that because he has a penis. Because logic. This also goes for manners in general. Like if a girl doesn't have great table manners, it's considered "unladylike" and "disgusting" and wrong. But if a dude's table manners aren't all that great, he's excused because he's a manly man who's allowed to eat however the fuck he wants. Same goes for style. If a guy doesn't have a fashion sense, then he's "just a guy" because it's not expected of him to know how to dress himself in nice clothes. But if a girl's fashion game isn't strong, she's suddenly a tasteless slob. This goes for makeup too. Guys aren't expected to wear makeup, thus they basically show all their flaws and it's ok. But whenever a woman doesn't wear makeup, she suddenly looks tired and gross and ew why didn't she cover up that disgusting pimple? INCONCEIVABLE!!!
And so on.0