Okay so I've been seeing the same guy for awhile. We were dating for 3 years and then broke it off. We went our separate way and even hated each other for a couple of months. Finally we started talking again and we've been hanging out and having fun again. Only one thing in the way... He has a new girlfriend. Everyday and Every night we are constantly talking to each other either phone or Facebook. We even started saying "I love you again to each other." now I know its not right but he was my first love and only love. He texted me the other day saying that he wants to end up with me later in life and start a family with me and even be married one day. He said that I am the girl he will always love and there's nothing to change that. Last night I told him he needs to dump her if he is saying all this kind of stuff to me.. Its like he thinks he's cool with me on the side or something. I did make the mistake with sleeping with him, but I missed him so much you have no idea. I will never find anyone that compares to him and I love him with all me heart. How should I react to this.. How should I go about this situation because I don't want to lose him forever this time.
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He has a girlfriend and he's treating you like this?
What about her feelings? Would she be glad to know of this duplicity on his and your part?
You may well be in her place in the future.
You and he are lying, in a sense, to his current girlfriend.
Lying is a show-stopper.
You both need to get a whole canful of honesty.
P.S. If you haven't already guessed, I think this situation stinks/sucks.
You deserve each other.0