Okay so my best friend says that i have a problem. Lets say i like someone for a long time and he's unavailable or doesn't like me that way. Or i like someone and as the guy starts liking me back i pull away completely and the feelings disappear. It always happens to me so my question is that what do you think i should do to stop and why do i do that?
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It's only a problem if you view it as a problem. If you are basing it as a problem on what your friend tells you, then it's her problem not yours.
It could be a defence mechanism, you like the idea of a relationship, but as soon as there is a chance things could develop you pull away , for fear of being hurt or rejected. Or it could just mean you are not ready for a relationship right now.0