went out on a date with this girl almost 2 months ago, on Valentine's day I got her a bear and flowers. We are "seeing each other" at this point in time, my plan: The 25th of march is exactly 2 months so I was going to get her a bouquet of flowers and a necklace and put a little note in it asking her to be my girlfriend.
Is that weird/creepy? If you were a girl would you want this?
Should I leave this flowers/necklace in her car/locker or should I give them to her directly?
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Personally, I think it's a little much, but that also depends on what her feelings are about the situation. Does she seem to be just as happy/into things as you are? And is she the type of girl who fawns over that kinda thing? If both those answers are yes, then it's a good idea.
For me, however, I prefer when the "are we a couple" discussion happens casually.. like it just kind of comes up when you're together and it feels right. I'd prefer not to get gifts and a note asking me to commit, because I think that creates pressure/guilt to say yes. It's the same reason I think public proposals are awful. But, of course, some women like that kind of thing.
Why don't you just send her flowers, no note, just the little card that says who they're from.. and then when you're hanging out and she brings it up, which she will, tell her how you feel and that you'd like to call her girlfriend.0