He likes me and the dates were good. But why did he mention one girl he dated and his ex?
Was talking about other girls he dated, during our date?
What Guys Said 9
just to infrom you maybe? that he has some experience in dating?1
I might bring up my ex girlfriend and how she treated me badly but had that never happen I would never have this special opportunity with you1
Some guys will compare... hopefully he was making the statement like... she use to do this which absolutely drove me bonkers... and I am glad you are not like that!
Not..." I miss this abour her"... or "She used to do this"
If the latter is the case then say ba- bye!0
Because it was probably a big part of his life. Some people feel like you should pretend past relationships never happened, but I think it's good that he's open about his life experiences. I think if he was hiding any second thoughts, he wouldn't risk blowing his cover by directly telling you during a date. It wouldn't make sense to do that. You're fine. Mention it if it's making you uncomfortable. He'll probably understand right away.0
On what topic?
If it's sex then he wants to do it with you too. Probably no consequences if you don't agree to it. Probably.
If it's an experience he had, like 'my ex used to visit that antique shop on bla bla', he's just being informative. Some of us guys just talk because we want to talk. Nothing behind it.
Now if it's in the line of 'what broke my relationship with my ex was bla bla', then he's being vulnerable. That means he likes you enough to be open about it, assuming it's true.0
What Girls Said 7
What did he say exactly? I know brining up ex's on dates is a no-no, but sometimes it just happens. Past relationships are a big part of people's lives and usually have effected them in some strong way, so it makes sense that they would come up.0
Well, there are 3 ways why did he does this. 1. He wants to show you that he is nice guy who has a lot of woman, but he choose you and you should be proud ( my bf used to behave like that so I know this shitty situation). 2. He doesn't knows what to say. But he doesn't wants to hurt you. 3. He expected you start to tell about your ex's.0
He's trying to make you jealous. He wants to impress you with his dating "prowess." He likes you a lot but he's very immature.0
Just to inform you he had experience in dating or he just want to know your reaction if you get jealous or you you won't mind it at all.0
I personally don't like talking about past relationships during a date but many people don't find it to be a big deal. Especially if it's after the 3rd date.0
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