Would you be weirded out or should the girl be the first to say it?
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You have to find that moment of perfect synchronicity to pull it off. That moment of elucidation when you both become self-aware of your feelings.
This is a hard fish to catch. You have to set the hook at just the right time.
It would be better to say it too late then too early.
Just look at every chick flic ever made. The moment of 'elucidation' and self-awareness always comes when they stand on the precipice of relationship oblivion.
And there's really only one way to do it. You have to run away and see if he let's you. If he would let you get away without a protest, then that isn't a match. But if he does search for you, then you're close to that magic moment. And if he loves you enough, it might just be the forever moment.
Everything in a chick flic is fake except for the moment of elucidation. That part they get right.1