Do you believe anyone can cheat? Or do you believe that there are two types of people, ones who cheat, and ones who don't?
How likely is it to get cheated on? Anyone have any good stats or something?
But the reason i ask this question is because i was cheated on by my first love. And now im in fear of dating again, I'm afraid everyone i meet, will cheat. So i feel whats the point in dating anymore? I feel like even if all is good in the beginning, that we will get bored and one of us will cheat eventually.
I've lost all hope in relationships and im scared shitless to start a new one.
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Extremely easy, especially before marriage... which I call dating, even in the face of such terms as... pinned... going steady... exclusive... engaged... S. O. ... etc.
Some things to avoid saying/doing to mitigate this possiblilty:
... Always agree to do what she wants to do or she'll find someone else more agreeable as co-doer... usually your BF... so learn these things before getting too involved
... Never brag about things she does that would attract other guys/your buddies, like the WOW things in bed or cooking skills, etc. What are you... a salesman?
... Always put her first and your desires second... better get used to that b/c after marriage soon you will drop to #3 (kids)
Don't worry, be happy... IF you love someone that you can keep her secrets in the vault and put her first, only to find she cheated... it was never meant to be and The Big Sign that you need to move on to be happy and hold someone that loves you back!1