Im seeing a group of friends who I haven't really seen or spoken to in almost a year. They're supposed to be like "family" to me, and before I moved away for a year they were. but when I left they didn't really seem to notice I was gone. which sucked and hurt and made me feel like I wanted to distance myself from them. But they are still friends... kind of the only friends I have in my city. I just started seeing a new guy and things are getting serious with us, which is great. I've met most of his friends and one i work with who is awesome. We all get along ok. A few I didn't really get a chance to talk with much but the ones I did get to hang out with were awesome. He's already met my parents but I haven't introduced him to any friends since the ones I talk with mostly are out of state. A part of me wants him to meet these guys, but another part of me feels like I dont want him too. Not because I dont want him to meet them but I dont feel like they need to meet him, since I rarely speak to let alone see them... does that make sense? I really dont know what to do... Am I in the wrong for thinking I kind of dont want them to meet this guy?
What should I do?
What Guys Said 1
You're not in the wrong. Put it this way, if you think they are your friends, then do it. Otherwise, the guy is more important to you. He's in your life and speaks to you regularly.
You sound like a good person, go with what your gut tells you, and stick with it.
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What Girls Said 1
I think it's understandable :) don't worry yourself but try to think what you want. Do you want them to meet him? If yes then do it. If you could care less then care less lol1
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