So, after a long history with this guy and never telling u im how I felt... I layed all the cards on the table and told him everything.. that I do want to marry him and I would without a doubt love to have kids with him... we had discussed these matters in the past... I told him the honest truth... he didn't reply for a day and then last night after I asked if he read it he says "yes I read it" I said good, that my friend convinced me to still go home for the weekend and if he was bored I might be down to hang out and he replied "maybe I'll see you then" I said that if he just wanted to hang out it was fine and I'd be just happy to see him and he said "lol will see what happens then" and I told him I'd give him some space and hope to hear from him this weekend and we left it at that...
Would his response be considered as friendly, there's still a chance... so on? What's your take on that reaction?
- He still wants to be with youVote A
- He doesn't want you to feel bad about sending itVote B
- He still wants your friendship and is just glad you said it.Vote C
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While his response could be viewed in different ways , his reserved answer is a defense answer ( afraid to get his hopes up thing ) . While he said " we'll see.. Is in fact saying it would be great if it happens , but I am prepared for far less in reality. It's a defense feeling , he doesn't want to allow his hopes to get up err disapointment.
The old saying goes that if you open the door ( sending him the message pertaining to your feelings for him ) then you must walk through it. Go see him and reassure him that he can and should be hopeful you may be surprised at the new tune he plays0
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