I have been seeing this girl about 2 months now and things are going really well.
I am going on a 2 day trip with a good friend I made about 6-7 months ago at the beginning of school who is a girl. (girlfriend couldn't go/had already been) We decided to just get a one bed hotel room as we found a great deal and location that was still cheaper than a hostel. I have no interest in this girl romantically, we are just friends always have been. People do find this hard to believe as she is a tall blonde who people tell me is very pretty and can't see why I don't try to date her.
So girls, would you be upset in this situation? Is it something that might make you feel a bit uncomfortable but you don't mind all that much? Would you be trusting enough to just not care at all?
If you would be upset by this, would there be anything I can do to help with that? I am not a fan of lying, but sometime it just keeps everyone happy, but maybe something I could just lie about? Maybe tell her we are staying at a hostel?
they have never met either, would introducing them help or hurt? (normally I would say it would help, but like I said, people thing she is really pretty)
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I would be fine with the whole trip and you sharing a room with the friend, but I don't think I would be okay with you and her sleeping in the same bed. I would also want to meet her to just make sure she isn't interested in you because you might think of her totally platonically, but I would want to make sure your friend feels platonically about you and wouldn't try to make a move on her.
Just imagine how you would feel if your gf went on a trip with some guy you have never met and you heard that people find him very attractive and your gf is going to share a bed with him. What would you do?1