Well first off, I'm a 16 year old girl and I've never even been asked out by a guy before. All my friends are going around gaining experience, dating guys, having sex, all of that jazz and I'm here by myself wondering what is wrong with me. It's like, the guys at school don't even look at me for some reason. When people ask me if I have a boyfriend and I reply "no, I've never even been asked out," they're shocked. They're always like wow you're such a pretty, sweet, smart girl. My question is, if I'm such a "pretty, sweet, smart girl" then why don't any guys want to be with me? And it's not like the guys at my school are shy. They have no problem asking any of the other girls out. It's like every guy I fall for ends up just viewing me as a friend and it hurts. And when I try to get them to view me in a different light, they distance themselves from me. Guys who I thought liked me and would tell me I'm beautiful end up asking me for help on how to ask another girl out. I'm sorry this is long, I just need help because I just can't take it; I feel so worthless and ugly or something is that why no guys like me? I know I shouldn't let this dictate how happy I am, but it's truthfully been getting to me even more lately and I just don't know what to do to fix this issue.
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To me you sound like Gold. Most guys in highschool are stressed, careless and busy thinking about how to get quick sex. Since they appear to see you as a friend, it means you have something extra that will be very sought after when you become older, around 18. That is personality.
Don't feel stressed. We know what you're going through. If you can, try to sit back and relax until things calm down. You don't want a boyfriend when they're at the worst age anyway.0