lets say you got really close fast over the phone lets say talking for a month, and then you met and it ended up being a one night stand. and after that she got cold feet and broke it off with you without telling you the truth as to why. Maybe it was another guy she liked better or maybe she wasn't ready or maybe she lost interest. but she came up with some excuse and then broke off contact with you.
Has a girl like this ever tried to reach back to you long after you stopped talking? if so how long? I've heard sometimes it can take years before people try to get in touch again but i want to get an idea how common it is.
Also girls if you have done something like this to a guy please share if you want to.
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A similar situation happened to me a few months ago, although i was in your position, it was the guy who broke it off. We met through one of those dating apps and texted for a week or two. I didn't have much interest in meeting him so we stopped talking for a few days, maybe a week or so. Then he finally talked me into meeting him and it was a great date. Long story short, he later stopped talking to me bc he didn't want a committed relationship, then a week or so later he hit me up. He admitted he missed me and we pretty much dated for a few weeks but I felt the feelings grow and he must have too so we agreed to move on since he still didn't wanna commit.
If I were the girl, I would assume it's bc something brought you to her mind, maybe had a dream about you, or you just kept coming back to mind. She could've broken it off for any reason but the bottom line is she must be thinking about you! If you're into this girl you should definitely see her again and just go with it. I would advise you to not allow your feelings (if you have feelings for her) to not get carried away though bc if she suddenly cut it off once she might do it again, but at the same time maybe not. Depending on the time you've been apart, she may have been doing real thinking about you. Like I said, take it at baby steps (especially emotionally). Try to figure her out should be your first mission and the best way to do so is see her in person. There's nothing worse than trying to have an important conversation over text. This is just my personal opinion though, not hers. I hope it works out though! :)1
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