I see him always staring at me like he his thinking about something, but it seems like he doesn't believe me when I tell him I like him and how safe I feel around him and comfortable. He tells me how he wants me in his life but he doesn't believe me? He waits and lingers staring and smiling like he is waiting for me to kiss him. But I chickened out because I was afraid. But maybe this is the reason?
He has been heartbroken as well after coming back from the air force the girl he was dating was married to another guy and he had to find out by some one else.
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I honestly think you should give the guy the time that he needs in order to be in a trusting romantic relationship again. He's probably moved on, but the fear of that happening again is really scary to him. Don't leave him or ignore him as doing this would result in pointless situations, instead try being there for him. The fear of this happening to him again is not your fault, and neither is it his so don't make his trusting problem personal to you.
Just give him time and be patient, throughout time he will realize that you're no harm, although the thoughts may still harm him.0