Well my boyfriend is the sweetest guy I've ever met and he says I'm the best girlfriend he's ever had. And I love him!
However sometimes I feel insecure about my looks...he has always preferred girls with dark chocolate hair and eyes, and girls with bigger boobs. That's all of his exes in a nutshell. This makes me feel insecure because my hair is dirty blonde, my eyes are ocean blue and my breast size is, well, small. I barely fit a B cup. He tells me he likes me how I am and didn't like the idea of me changing my hair color when I wanted to (so I didn't) but I'm still left confused. I don't understand how he can find me attractive if I don't fit his preferences and leaves me wondering if he'd like me more with brown hair, brown eyes and bigger boobs or if I can't please him as well because of this.
Help? Is this bad?
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He likes you the way you are - take him at his word! Just because all or several of his exes fit a certain description doesn't mean that's the only type of girl he is attracted to. It may just be coincidence that they all look a lot alike in these ways. It could be that, yeah, he tends to have a bit of a "type", but he went against the grain for you and, I don't know, doesn't that make you feel kinda special? There's obviously something about YOU that he is drawn to, so be happy with it :)
Insecurity isn't attractive to anyone - all you're gonna do if you continue to focus on this stuff is push him away.0