I know I asked this question but I never got it answered. Why would a girl cut contact with a guy she likes? I know it's because she thinks it won't work out. But why not try to make it work? That's my question. Why be rude and negative towards him. It doesn't makeep sense, one minute she's the sweetest, nicest feminine girl. The next she's rude and telling me to leave her alone and insulting me. Why would a girl do this? She can't stop loving me in a heartbeat.
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It may be various reasons. She may have psychological issues or not being sure in her feelings or not being sure in your feelings or many other things... I personally think there is also a big possibility that she felt neglected when you were very busy and not giving her attention. Us ladies sometimes feel insecure just like you guys and we can't always understand that you are THAT busy that you can't find more time for us. When we are younger, there is even more chance that it is insecurity. First, I think you should talk to her and tell her your thoughts you shared here. It's usually surprisingly good to talk. Second, next time you are very busy, try to tell her that in advance or even better to find time at least to have a short phone conversation with her... It will feel good to you too. I don't approve rudeness, but sometimes when we are insecure or feel hurt, even when we only think we have a reason like that, we say things we don't mean. I really think it might be she is just insecure and protects herself with being rude when she feels neglected or anything else that is not pleasant to her and makes her scared to show her vulnerability.1