I have noticed that many women seem to expect an instant connection. I've seen dating profiles where a woman says "I can tell within _____ minutes of there's something there." I have noticed that many women that I went on a date with said the same thing; something along the lines of "I had a great time and you are really nice, but I just didn't feel a connection..." or some derivative thereof. So I wonder, how many women expect an instant connection? It seems like true attractions take time to develop; it seems wrong that many women I have gone on a date with seem to have a stopwatch on the date; "I expect a connection within _________ amount of time or I move on." I don't mean a date that goes terribly; I mean a date that goes well but the connection isn't there immediately.
- No I don't expect an instant connection; if the date goes well I'll give him a second date; I'll give him a chance to form more of a connection.Vote A
- Yes I expect an instant connection; if I don't feel one no second date no matter how well the date goes.Vote B