This is seriously bothering me, please just skim through this and try to help me. I barely get any replies so please Please give me some advice. I don't know what to do and I'm losing serious sleep over it. I know it looks long but it really isn't.
He did this 5 months ago too. We care about each other so much, but then we didn't know the other did. After josh stopped talking to me and being a jerk, me and his best friend started dating, fell in love, and are still together.
Mike is in jail, found out he cheated on me, and Josh put me back together after I broke down. In the passed two months, Josh has poured his heart out to me, told me how much he cares for me, and told me things he's never told anyone. We slept together a few times. After that happened I stopped caring Mikey cheated, it still hurts, but it's like I don't care as much as long as he never does it again.
Last time I saw him, he slept over at my house, everything was perfect, we woke up & went to work. He was suppose to pick me up after work and go to his place, never showed up. I haven't seen him since and barely hear from him. When I do he's super short with me and is kind of mean, like he's trying to push me away.
I never told Josh I had trouble choosing who I want to be with, I stopped talking about Mikey a long time ago, we never argued, there isn't another girl in the picture, nothing. There isn't any obvious reason to me as to why he's doing this. The only thing I can think of is that he's scared I will do the same thing to him that he did to me when his ex was in jail. I don't know why he would think that.
What should I do? Should I ask him why he's doing this? If so, what do I say? Or should I let it be and wait for Mikey to get out of jail and forget Josh? I don't know if I can forget him, but try.
- Ask him what's going on (please leave comment on what to say)Vote A
- Forget him and wait for MikeyVote B
- Other (comments)Vote C
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Forget them both, GorgeousVixen95, and from reading and re reading it, it appears They were best friends? Perhaps this could be One reason Josh just kind of disappeared from here, dear, And----Why he's doing this.
Move on from both guys, give yourself a fresh start. Leave the past where it is and forget the future you thought you might have have had with the man who got away.
Good luck and blessings for the remainder of 2015. xx1
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