my boyfriend has a little girl that stays with us monday thru friday, I am the one who watches her and takes care of her everyday. I don't have any of my own kids and i really want one in the future but now I am thinking I don't. I really don't want her around any more, she lies and doesn't listen I know she is only 5 but its hard to deal with. and when he gets home he talks to her and it takes all he has to deal with her and I get ignored. I don't want her around any more unless he helps out watching her. is that bad? without me she wouldn't be able to stay here cause I take care of her from the time she wakes up till she goes to bed, but with her here I don't want to be.
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I think you're in a bit of an awkward situation, you've basically been left in charge of a kid that's not yours like a nanny. You shouldn't let this affect your own want of children in the future because I think that would be a different situation where you are the actual mother and not the babysitter. Regarding your bf's daughter, you are going to need to decide what you want in your own life. (Yeah some people may label you as selfish, but I say you're pretty selfless to be looking after someone else's kid five days a week.) If you're unhappy with the current situation with you, your boyfriend and his daughter then you're probably going to have to leave. You can't ask him to choose between him and you (you probably wouldn't like the outcome if you did), so really it's your only choice if you want a change.0