So, I've liked guy A for about a month now, he's split up with his girlfriend and Flirts with me, only when guy B isn't around. But guy B is my ex, but wants me back, that I know for sure because he tells it me everyday. Guy A always gives me mixed signals, but tells me how he wants to kiss me, but the next day cannot even speak to me. I really like guy A, he's kind, caring, funny, yet my friends don't approve because he's not the best looking. But I'm not shallow, I don't care. He's everything I've ever wished for in a guy. Yet guy B is really good looking, really good at football, but I'm not sure if I would get back with him. My family approves of guy B, but not really guy A. I'm so confused. I don't even know if guy A likes me that much, he is always around his Ex's house, he tried to get back with her but she cheated on him. Both guys are really good friends, which is why Guy A doesn't like flirting with me around guy B, he's already told me this. He always says how he wants to kiss me, but feels bad for guy B so I'm so unsure whether or not he would get with me because of this. I don't want to pick one, because they aren't toys, just which one do you think I should make more effort for to be with?
- Guy A60% (3)60% (3)60% (6)Vote
- Guy B0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
- Neither, walk away from both20% (1)40% (2)30% (3)Vote
- Make effort for both and see what happens, although it could jeopardise their friendship.20% (1)0% (0)10% (1)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
Personally, I wouldn't get with any of them. Guy A most likely still has feelings for his ex which makes YOU a possible rebound. His break up is still fresh. Guy B is your ex... your EX, do you really want to get back with someone and go through that process again or would you like a fresh start? Find someone who is not hung up on their ex and someone you didn't break up with.2