Girls ask Guys is somehow messing with this questions. I'm trying to figure out why sometimes straight girls hook up with lesbians, and what lesbians do to get a straight girl. Thanks.
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It's called being bi-sexual. Sure, some straight women will experiment, but honestly, I don't think this is as common as people think it is. I think, generally, some women may be a little more bi curious than others, and they're the ones who that friend of yours will be finding success with, but a woman who has no homosexual desires at all won't just "go gay"... it doesn't happen.
My best friend used to believe she was straight because she had only dated/slept with men at the age of 25, but then she met a woman who she found herself incredibly attracted to. It took her some time to become comfortable with it, because she'd always thought of herself as straight, but eventually she ended up experimenting with this woman and discovered that she is actually more gay than straight along the spectrum. Since then, she has found far more women attractive than men. I think, for her, being gay had just never been something that she had considered was a possibility for her, so she never pursued it and just assumed she was straight. But looking back, she had never been satisfied with her sexual relationships with men. She now considers herself bi sexual, but leaning more toward women than men. She quips that she's 80% gay, 20% straight.1