We dated for a few months. I really liked her and told her a couple of times. Although she never said it, I felt that she had friendzoned me because she wasn't really showing much sign of interest when we were together, although she texted me quite a lot. Because of this I pretty much just texted her saying I couldnt be friends with her because I wanted more, and that we should stop talking. She was a bit confused but said she didn't think she could be with me so if thats what I want then ok. I let my emotions get the better of me a bit and I really regret it. It's been 3 weeks since we last spoke and I feel really bad. What can I do to get her back as a friend, without her thinking that i'm needy and continuing to try to pursue a relationship with her? I feel like anything I text her now will come across as needyness. I dont even know if she cares about the loss of our friendship or not and I dont wanna make myself look like an idiot if she doesn't.
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Firstly, are you absolutely positively one hundred percent SURE you can be friends without wanting anything else from her? That these feelings won't come up again? If so, I wouldn't text her. I would find a way to meet up with her and explain that you made it sort of awkward between the two of you, that you're not interested in dating her, and you'd like to resume your friendship.0