I've been seeing this guy a month now, he's great. We clicked from day one and have done since. However, I've paid for all our dates (something that even a waitress said, he's not the guy for you!)
ALSO, he's joining the army this year and I'm worried I won't be able to handle all that. It's not the distance but for such a young couple (20 & 21) and a new relationship, I don't know if we can be that far apart so soon..
He keeps saying he can handle it and he really likes me and wants to be with me but I'm so torn...
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'However, I've paid for all our dates (something that even a waitress said, he's not the guy for you!)"
There's your answer.
A guy should NEVER let you pay for all the dates. The first few dates should be him, then as time goes on and you become more serious and exclusive, then offer once in a while, go dutch. But, no, I don't like it.0