She asks me out, we have a great lunch, lasts 1 hour, 15 mins, we talk business for 3 minutes.
The rest of the time its pretty much a date, we talked about ourselves, she plays with her hair, bit her lips, her body language plus level of interest was really good. I know when a date is bad, and I know when a date is amazing and I feel a connection. This was definitely a latter.
I message her after, thanking her for coming for lunch, she says thanks back, we agree we should do it again.
I ask her for lunch again, no response...
a) is this pretty much a dud?
b) is she playing hard to get since she initiated?
We are still working together (on a new project) .. so nothing has changed in that sense. She could have chosen not to after the fact, but everything is cool in that regard.
- It's a dud broVote A
- She is playing hard to getVote B
- You're over thinking this shit; move on foolVote C
- Do you even lift bro?Vote D