What are commitment issues and how do you deal with someone who has them?

A guy my friend likes told her he can't be with her because he has 'commitment issues'. What are these, what caused him to have them, and what should she do? Should she give up on him?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I have commitment issues. I don't do too well with relationships. I am a flirt and also I have a lot of trust issues. I don't trust people easily. I like to flirt with many people and I just like to be free. Also a relationship usually puts pressure on the girl (usually) to have sex and I'm still a B and don't feel like having a deadline on my virginity. Labels make me nervous. I'd rather a friends w/benefits kind of relationship with someone.

    If he has commitment issues, it means he wants to play the field. That's what I do.

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What Guys Said 1

  • He wants to bang/date other girls and has a tough time sticking to one girl.

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What Girls Said 1

  • He fears being in a committed relationship/chained down with a person. Past experiences could cause him to feel that way or he could believe horror stories from many men.

    Honestly, I wouldn't waste time on a noncommital man.

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