I was just curious if other people have crushes on people besides their SO?
I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and I'm so in love with him, so I would never ever cheat. I could never do that to him, because I'm like 100% sure that I'm going to marry him someday lol.
Buuuut, I have a few crushes that I can't seem to shake and I find myself wishing that my boyfriend had come into my life a couple years in the future. I still feel so young and that I didn't "play the field" as much as I could have. I know none of these crushes can even compare to my boyfriend, but I miss the flirting, the chase, and the sexual tension. I want things to feel new again.
I hope this feeling goes away. I wouldn't be able to stand losing my boyfriend, but I'm just so curious about other people. I want to feel this way about my boyfriend again, like I did when we first started dating.
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It's fine, we can't help who we like. It's normal to have crushes, relationships or not. I know you love your boyfriend, so maybe experiment with him. Role play as people who aren't dating, or hold out on all things sexual besides kissing to build up the sexual tension. You can flirt with him all you want. Let him know that you miss that stuff, so you can bring it into the relationship. Or which I don't know if you would be willing to do, is take a break with him. Explain to him what's going on, and tell him you want to get it out of your system so that you guys can be together better. So during the break, flirt, play the field do what you wanna do, and try and get it out of your system. Or do both, if the first doesn't work, try the second, and vise versa.0