although I've never actually heard her say she thinks I'm creepy, im 99% sure that she thinks I'm a creep and I admit I did do some things that were weird and she probably thinks I'm a pig. She glared at me and I noticed her roll her eyes at me a few times.
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What you said wasn't creepy. It probably wasn't the best choice of words, but it wasn't creepy.
Some girls might be flattered by that. It does show that you appreciate her body, even if it's a disrespectful way. And if she's trying to make you notice her rolling her eyes, maybe she wants you to talk to her and address it, or at least let you know that you hurt her and that that matters.
If she isn't attracted to you and is genuinely bothered by what you said, she might be imagining that you are routinely saying things like that (or more explicit) and that she is the butt of jokes behind her back. At least you need to talk about what you said to her, whether or not you want to salvage any relationship potential. Say something like "I know you heard me say something rude about you. Please know that I'm sorry I said it and that I'm not normally that kind of person." Then, don't try to pester her or anything, just let some time pass without getting any more involved. Wait to see if her impression of you changes. Then you can concern yourself with the possibility of a relationship.
On a side note, I really hate how misused the words 'creepy' and 'stalker' are. Don't take them as really meaning anything anymore.2
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