I've been seeing a girl who has a lot of male friends, and I wonder if she's the kind to sleep around a lot.
Basically I'd like to find out about her values regarding monogamy, opposite-sex friendships and cheating.
What would be the best way to find out, in order for her to be open and honest about it instead of telling me what she thinks I want to hear?
I'm not too judgmental as long as everything is clear and honest from the start.
How should I go about it? Are there any signs I should look for? (We've been dating and sleeping together once every week for a few weeks)
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If you've been dating and sleeping together for a few weeks and you're still asking this question, I think something is either off about her or about you. Most people can get a sense about the others' values just from spending time together. So if you're still worried after being this close together, she's either giving you good reason to worry, or you have a particular insecurity over this issue that you need to look within yourself about.2
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