What's the one thing that would stop you from dating someone?

I don't mean they have an SO, I mean personality or physical feature wise. If they did/had ______ you wouldn't date them. Just one thing that totally makes you not attracted to them anymore.

For me it's if they smell bad or if they have a really annoying voice, I don't know why. Also if they're really mean and lie. So I guess thats 4 things! List as many as you want!!


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What Guys Said 16

  • Assuming she passed all the prerequisites and made it to dating, I'd immediately stop dating a girl if she gave me flash with no bang (bad attitude without redeeming qualities that make me immediately overlook it).

    There are nice girls out there, I BELIEVE!

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  • If the girl was not honest and could not be trusted. Honesty and trust is essential in a relationship. If you don't have that you don't have a relationship.

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    • Yeah, also if the girl treats me badly I will not date her either. I don't accept any from of verbal or physically abuse from girls. It is "good bye" if they treat me like that and ill go find myself a good girl instead.

  • If they were a pessimist
    or if they were significantly overweight

    Hygiene is big too!
    and i agree with the voice thing!

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    • Thank god I'm not the only one!! Some people talk and they could be so nice but I always feel bad like I just want to tell them to be quiet!!

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    • Ya but it's understandable, from the Brazilian guys I've met their voice wouldn't matter in the slightest

      Actually maybe that's a lie :p I'm not that shallow

    • damn... wth I don't know why she is with him, they upset me, she just always smiles and looks confused!
      wtf!!!

      its whatever though, why can't i be captain of the damn soccer team! lol i shouldn't have stopped playing!

  • Has a lot of baggage/complains about her ex (made that mistake already)
    No motivation (doesn't work or go to school and isn't putting any effort in)
    Very negative/complains a lot
    No self respect
    Does hard drugs (anything harder than weed)
    Very obese
    Clingy/controlling

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  • Persistent negativity.

    I like to be around people that are hopeful and fun. I don't wanna be dragged down all the time.

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  • If they already have children.

    If they're fat.

    If they have a really ugly face and look like they're on drugs.

    If they have smokers lips.

    If they smoke.

    If they don't like that I watch sports.

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  • Narrow minded
    Parties a lot
    Overly clingy
    Dishonest
    Bad hygiene

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  • I wouldn't date a woman I didn't find phisically attractive. She could have the best personality in the world it still wouldn't make up for her phisical "shortcomings".
    I also wouldn't date smug and arrogant women, gold diggers and dumbasses. They are good for friends with benefits but for a commited and loving relationship a woman has to offer something more. It's really hard to find a decent, marriage-worthy woman.

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  • Smoking is so disgusting. That would hands down stop everything.
    What else.. too many body piercings, tattoos (personal preference), major hygiene problems? Found out she has a cheating problem. Basically pretty obvious things.

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  • No physical or emotional attraction.

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  • hygiene habits...

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  • Conservative narrow minded bad body odour bad personal hygiene.. Etc for me

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  • Bitchy personality

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  • A girl that's whining and keeps on gossiping

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  • -every conversation turns into a story about their ex
    -No motivation to fight for what they want in life
    -negative/bitchs a lot
    -drugs
    -controlling
    -disrespect mine or their family

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  • if the bitch got aids

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What Girls Said 10

  • I would have to say if they don't have a sense of humor and take themselves too seriously.

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  • Here is a few I can think of... comment if you disagree ladies
    Has bad teeth
    Has terrible acne
    doesn't have money for dates
    HE smells
    Eats with his mouth open
    Horrible laugh
    Can't make eye contact
    Too clingy
    Too distant
    Has messy look
    wears kid clothes
    wears sandals with socks
    wears sandals
    Has unkept hair and facial hair
    Doesn't bathe daily
    Texting who I with every minute of the day
    He is jealous
    Excessive swearing
    too polite
    Horrible clothing style
    Wears clothing my granddad would wear
    Buys forever 21 guy clothing
    If he's arrogant
    If he's too shy or quiet
    If he is to negative or sadistic or just a plain douchebag
    If he doesn't smile or too serious
    Horrible sense of humor
    If he smokes
    If he Drinks excessive
    If he does Drugs
    If he is obese
    He doesn't have muscles
    If he weighs less than me
    If he is shorter than 5'6
    If he is Taller than 6'6
    If he is Asian/Indian
    If he is a Rich boy/Narcissistic
    If he has no job
    If he is a high school dropout
    If he has a nose ring
    If he wears hoop earrings
    If he is a thug
    If he is some foreign european guy
    If he is a massive perve
    If he is a player
    If he says swag
    If doesn't speak Both English or Spanish
    If he is racist
    If he has profile picture in which he lacks a shirt
    If he Tweets or snapchats excessively
    If he has a feminine voice
    Wears make up
    If he has no car (I have my own car)
    Brags he has a huge dick but in reality we all know they small
    ..

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  • Lack of emotional and sexual chemistry.

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  • Besides bad hygiene, someone that is self-centered is a major turn off like if you are going to blab about yourself, not ask me any questions, or cut me off to talk about yourself I don't see how we can be together. That is my major deal breaker along with having a bad temper.

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  • If they get butthurt easily and aren't playful.

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  • No hair or buzz cut..
    Hairy body
    Bad sense of style
    Too fat ( I'm not fat and I've dated a fat guy before and got a lot of shit )
    Is stupid
    Has 0 goals in life
    Only likes me for my looks ( this one is almost impossible to find)

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  • negativity is a huge turnoff

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  • No chemistry
    Low self-esteem
    No physical or emotional attraction
    Bad hygiene

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  • Bad hygiene, not in college, shorter than me and that is about it haha. Pretty teeth never hurt nobody either :D

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  • if they are arrogant

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