So I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for around 7 years now, we've been dating since college and 2 months ago I found out he was cheating on me with my neighbor. Also this wasn't the first time he cheated, he cheated on him before too but I forgave him. When I I found out he's cheating on me a 2nd time, I had to leave the country to take a break, I left for a month without confronting him. I came back and he's still with her, (She's trying to manipulate him into breaking things off with me) I tried to contact him to meet up and dicuss about where our relationship is going but he refused to meet up with me. It's been 7 years and our families even discussed marriage and now it's all falling apart! What should I do?
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Well , im Sorry For What Happened ! My grandma had ur same situation, She had A boyfriend for 7 years since she was 16 but then They broke up for some reasons and she got married with my grandpa. She said that she loved her boyfriend so much but she Always says thank God they broke up cause If not, she wouldn't have met and got married With my grandpa ! What im trying to say is that , I know its hard for u, But if he really does love u he wouldn't have cheated on u for the first time or at least after u forgave Him!!! Besides if he cares he would have accepted To see u when u asked for It !! Its ur right To be with someone That knows Ur value! And u have the right to be happy ! If he cheated 2 times he won't stop :/ so now Its ur turn to think If u wanna live with a man that wouldn't cheat on u and that truly loves u OR to live with a guy that cheated On u 2 Times!! Just cause u can't Make all the things that happened in 7 years Fall apart! please Think deeply About this :) wish u ThE best <31