OK, I've been with my boyfriend/father of my kids for 8 years and it seems like for the past couple years all wet do is fight. This last year or two has been hell! He gets really mad at when something pisses him off I'm getting the fire for it and he calls me every name in the book breaks up with me and everything. The last couple weeks have been hell as well he broke up with me for no real reason and told me he's been seeing somebody else anyway and he's tired of me and wants me to leave. When I decided to take the kids and go he basically made me stay with guilt. Then he kissed me two days after the fight and said he was sorry, but then today he got pissed again and said just because I fucked you doesn't mean I want you. You ain't shit im tired of you and so on. Not to mention I'm pregnant with our 4th child and he is stressing the crap out of me. I can't sleep at night my chest is always tight and hurting im always crying I'm a mess! Can anyone tell me what is going on!! Why is he treating me like this? And don't say sit down and talk because he won't talk to me at all. He sits on his phone all day he has no time for me at all. I just don't get why he hates me?! Is it somebody else?!!!!
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I feel really sorry.
Well if sitting and talking is not an option.
I know u don't have the strength left to do much about it.. But he ll only know and remember ur value when u go away from him.
When there ll be no one at his weak times..
Maybe u can go to ir siblings house or parents.
I dont know how long u hv been pregnant. But it wasn't a good idea to have a 4th child with him.
R u financualy dependent on him? Of not then jus leavee ! He ll value u only then.
No other way for such person.
Even if u cheat on him, i dun know would it really matter to him and if yes then he ll just end up beating u or ur lover up..