So I've known this girl for about 3 weeks and been on 3 dates with this girl. We've made out but no sex yet. So far she's very agreeable to everything that I suggest we do, everytime I message her she replies. On our dates she is pleasant and nice, but quite reserved as well. The only thing thats weird is that she will NEVER initiate a text message. Not sure if I'm reading too much into this or if its just normal.
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I think she's just taking it slow and trying not to appear eager. I've done this before, because we as women hear so much from guys about how clingy chicks get that we fear coming off that way, especially early on, so we'll try to hang back and let you take the lead so that we don't come off as eager, clingy, etc. and freak you out.
Or, maybe she's just not sure how she feels about you yet, so while she's willing to go out with you again and such, she's not interested enough to initiate.
Either way, just keep doin' what you're doin' and see how it goes over the next few weeks.0