I'm okay with my boyfriend hanging out with his guy friends, but lately he've been going to the bar a lot and got super drunk. I told him not to go there that often. He said okay. Then, he told me he has to go to the gym, turns out he goes to the bar with his friends (again). I tried calling him a lot of time but no answer. What should I do about this now?
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"I told him not to go there that often."
You're trying to control him. That won't work; the most likely outcome is that he'll end up doing the very thing (s) you're telling him not to do.
"I tried calling him a lot of time but no answer."
That's a combination of controlling and nagging. It's a good bet that he knows why you're calling, but he just doesn't want to deal with you when you're in that state of mind.
Bottom line, do you trust him, and are you willing to let him be his own person? If the answer to either question is no, why are you in a relationship with him?0
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