I'm a man who was molested by my stepfather, and it's fucking embarrassing. It fucked me up significantly and I don't and won't talk about it with anyone ever. But I've been seeing someone for a while now and they brought up that they're feeling like I'm not as interested with them as I claim to be because I haven't even groped them yet (been seeing eachother for maybe 2-3months) and I don't know if I'm supposed to make them aware or not. I really don't want to because it's so embarrassing and I don't want them freaking out on me or treating me weird or breaking things off or telling people or treating me like I'm not man enough or psychoanalyzibg me or any of that shit. Advice?
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I would feel very honored and happy that he chose to confide in me. I love honesty... I love people being comfortable enough to trust me with personal information and it just makes me feel special and trusted by them. By now you should know this girl well enough to guess how she'd act. Is she caring? If she is then I'm sure she will react positively to the news. I'm a very caring, compassionate person and will definitely not be weird about.1