So me and this guy have dated 2 times before but previously we were both to busy for a relationship, I have always really liked him and he has been the only guy I have ever been able to see a future with, well recently he was back and forth between me and his ex (because she was texting him while she had a boyfriend that she wanted to be with him, she was playing the crap outta him and he fell for it) who he had dated for 5 years and I told him I wasn't doing it and that he could talk to me when he decided what he was going to do, well he ended up picking me and now we are dating but he doesn't want to jump into it being a relationship which I understand but it's hard to take things slow when we have dated on and off for a year and 3 months... it just feels like we are already a couple we both agreed that he was only gonna see me and I was only going to see him and he is planning a vacation for us to go on and he's made all these plans for us and his friends are always asking me if we are official yet, everyone says we are perfect for each other and I agree he makes me a better person and I feel I do the same for him... So why aren't we an official couple? I need opinions from people.. Is he just wanting to try and take things slow to see if it'll all work out or is he afraid of getting hurt or what? And should I ask him about it?
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It's hard to try to guess his reasons, I think that maybe he wants to see how it goes first before jumping into a relationship, some people just need more time to do it. I think that this is what is happening perhaps. Give him more time. If you wanna ask him, I see no problems, but don't insist too much for now.0