Hey so I arranged a date with this guy I like from work at our office party last week. He has flirted with me a lot since we started working together six months ago but as we were both in relationships nothing happened. We are both newly single for nearly two months. At the office party I asked him out and he said yes and he said a lot of complimentary things to me and seemed excited about us going out together. Then a few hours later he kissed one of my co-workers. She has chased him for the past few months and he has never seemed interested. I don't understand any of this as it's not like him - he is quite serious and dependable. I really like him - but if he kissed someone else in front of me he can't be that interested, even if he was drunk.
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He seems like a player to me. Obviously I don't know this guy personally, but after he has assured you that he wanted to go out with you, he goes and kisses another girl? I mean, first I would ask myself if he's really worth it, because a guy can be extremely attractive, but once he seems like a player, or if he seems full of himself, then that's an immediate turn off.
But if you think he is worth going after, then I think you be upgly think that you should ask him face to face, because it seems like he is the only one that would know the reason why he decided to do that.
If you are afraid of causing conflict, then then make a joke, about it, a joke that he can get the message that you are trying to send. Like: Oh you know who I think would make a great couple? You and "Sally" because I saw you guys kissing the other day"
But, as I said before, I think the best way to find out why he did that, is to ask him straight forward. Without playing any games, or reading between the lines.0