Just curious, even if you do party? I don't know I tend to fall for girls that have a little bit of a wild side, and are very attractive, but I have beliefs that I stick to personally and I don't smoke or do drugs, and I won't drink until the age of 21.
I just prefer following the rules and laws that have been laid out. I have goals and ambitions, and just want to get through life comfortably without getting in (or causing) any trouble. Call me boring but whatever...
I DO know how to have a good time. I'd be a great Boyfriend to any girl who I was with, and I'd love her right. I'm very nice and have a fun personality. I get compliments on good looks fairly often so I don't think that's a problem.
I do know that I'm more mature than most people my age, so I think once people mature a bit more I'll do fine with dating. But its just I don't have a lot of female friends and the ones that I do have aren't like hanging all over me like they do with some of their male friends and they don't flirt much with me or express interest.
I at least expect a girl to show me interest too, I don't want to do all the work. And I will show interest if I'm interested in someone. but nothing has worked out for me so far. I'm almost 20 years old and have never had a Girlfriend or even a kiss! ...and the wait is killing me! lol!
I want to have some experience with dating and relationships, but apparently I need to fix SOMETHING.
Ladies, what do you think about a guy like me?
Thanks so much! :)
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What's wrong with partying? Most people think partying, especially going to clubs are to hook up and get drunk, or get laid or what not. Which isn't always true.
I know many girls, especially my friends go to party/club to have fun together and love to dance.
It is extremely hard to find someone if you have such a high standards or be picky. Stop setting standards and go for someone you feel attractive to and share chemistry with.
AND you need to work hard to get a girl. You have to treat her like a princess in the beginning to win her heart, never give up(which can be a story if you REALLY like that girl a lot and need to have her). And some point along, she will magically fall for you. It happened to me. I thought my ex was ugliest guy on earth (so mean I know!) and he called me all the time, checking up on me (which I was annoyed), but one day he stopped calling saying that he is really sick. Yeah, I was in love with him then and was REALLY worried about him. You gotta earn the props.
You are already mature so that's a big turn on but stop being picky about it. Whoever you feel the connection with, go for it. She can learn from your maturity too.1