Guys, would you ever date a girl with scars?

i used to self harm and i think my scars are so ugly and i hate them. but do you guys care if a girl has scars? they are faintly visible and they are on my thighs where you can only see them if im naked. is that a turn off?


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  • i don't give a damn about scars basically!

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    • thanks so do you think most guys dont care?

    • thanks and i believe no most guys won't basically...:-)

What Guys Said 13

  • You know... there's the entire thing man are visual animals but this is taking it a bit too far here lol
    I can't say for other people but NOT A SINGLE FOOOOK IS GIVEN about scars.
    http://i.imgur.com/9VV5LB3.jpg

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  • I would be fine with them in terms of looks but I might have second thoughts in terms of other things. Like, what if she decides to go back to harming? I don't want a woman like that.

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  • not with self harm scars
    but i had a big crush on a girl who had a very big scar on her leg

    someone put a firework in her pocket in mexico when she was a little girl, it was pretty big and on her right thigh...

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  • Scars, like stretch marks, are def. a turn-on. But, I would feel sad. And share my own scars with you.

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  • Honestly for me it depends on how she got the scars. I find them attractive if she got them from surviving a tough fight. Shows how strong she is.

    Self harm though? I'm a bit iffy with...

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  • no never
    it would never be a turn off if i know why
    i had self harmed myself before and regret it
    if you want a friend to listen i would love to help

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  • Yes I am, not a turn off, some are like cool tattoos only without the ink

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  • Nope it wouldn't be a turn off

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  • As long as she loves me, I don't care what scars she has.

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  • I don't care, it's okay honey, you did that to feel better about yourself from social pressures.

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  • No way... it just shows your real. Not a problem at all!

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  • It doesn't make a difference at all when it comes to attraction. Of I'm attracted to you, no scars will change that.

    If anything, they would make me feel sympathy for you, and I'd try my best to care for you.

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  • I actually find scars attractive... ;)

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    • really? ;)

    • Really, I don't know why wanna chat? ;)

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