My guy friend and I unexpectedly fell for each other. Really, it was a shock one day when we realized this. He has a girl and I told him we should stop seeing each other. He says he "really just can't not see me" and "this is all just so very unexpected.." and he says he doesn't know what to do and he doesn't want to hurt his girl and he can't lose me. We have not crossed any boundaries except a kiss once. Should I let this go even if it breaks both our hearts because wouldn't he be with me if I meant that much? Can a guy love two girls?
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I think you might already know the answer to this one. He's trying to have his cake and eat it too. Well, he can't. That's just not fair. I think this is one of those situations where you have to let him go and see if he comes back. If he doesn't come back, then he never really was yours to begin with. And if he does come back, great! I think it's the only real way to know. I'm sorry though, because it's a bad situation.0