what if a girl is really into a guy, then she finds out guy is 5 years older then gets weirded out and suddenly says we should b friends instead? and gets all distant after she finds out...whats up with that?
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I really don't know. My husband is 6 years older than me and when we started dating I was actually relieved to have an older guy lol.
The only thing I can think of is that because your older, you are more ready for a life long commitment and she isn't. Also it can be peer pressure to date only your age. I know when I told a few friends I was dating a 24 year old when I was 18, they didn't exactly say "Oh I wanna meet him!". And of course I got the run down from my parents that he just wanted sex and blah blah blah. Now I think they like him more than me ;)1