I meet this really amazing girl not to long ago. We seemed to have a instant connection. I added her on Fb, a few days later I asked her out. She said she would like to meet up but she needs a bit of time right now she has recently got out of a bad relationship. and is a bit unsure of her self. but she would love to get to know me"
I left it at that. And haven't asked since. It's now been about a week. We have spoke more or less every day. and not just one or two messages. A lot of messages. 20-30+ a day.
Although she has never started a conversation with me. It has always been me starting it. But I find that is the same with everyone I talk to. She said she wants to get to know me but hasent really asked me any questions. She did state that she does'nt really like asking questions.
So do I strike up a convo and get on the topic of where I would take her out and say I was thinking of going there on blah blah day, want to join me. and see what happens. Or do I give it more time.
I don't want to wait to long and someone else come along and beats me to it.
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That's part of the problem I have meet her once. And that was when we 1st met. How do I ask her to meet up as friends without using the word friend. Last thing I want is to be friend zoned lol
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"I don't want to wait to long and someone else come along and beats me to it." If she likes you and just came out of a bad relationship, that won't happen. I'll only say it once, DO NOT be insecure. If I were you I would wait a little bit longer but slowly ease into it. I would try hanging out with her casually to get her comfortable with being around you.0