I met this guy last week at a work event and gave him my number and we even made date plans for a day in London. He finally texts me a week later (claims that his phone was in repairs - I believed him though as his phone did look a little different the next time I met him). He tells me that he's in my neighbourhood and we decide to meet up and we eventually end up sleeping together. The only problem is that I don't know what is happening from here as every time we speak he always speaks about long distance and relationships and what we were looking for in the opposite sex but I'm finding it hard to suss him out as he doesn't really text (has been like this from the start). We talk more when we're together rather than over text. He also told me that he told his friends and parents about me. So did he just want to hit it and quit it? And how do I ask him if that was his intention in a subtle way?
- Yes - he wanted to hit it and quit itVote A
- No - he wants something moreVote B
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"We talk more when we're together rather than over text."
That is perfection. If he really just wanted to hit and quit, he wouldn't have said nada to anybody except his fellows over a pint.1