So I seem to have a problem where every guy I talk to is interested in me for about a month then they disappear so I'm trying to figure out how to fix myself. About me: I love sports, I do cheerleading and rugby though I'm always down for the gym or street hockey/basketball, I love soccer to. I enjoy the outdoors and getting messy. Adventures are my favourite things and new experiences. I love kids I'm in college for child and youth work and volunteer with kids with Special needs. I love beer and watching hockey. I'm laid back and usually go with the flow. I don't like the bar scene but I do love to dance. I'm shy and awkward but love making people laugh and feel appreciated. I fall easily and I just want someone to love me back. I play guitar and piano, I bake and cook infact I love the majority of household chores. I love cars and action movies like fast n furious. I enjoy books too and have a high intellect.
What I look like:
I'm working on how fat I am.
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They disappear after a month? Sounds like those guys who are only after sex and give up when u dont put out. Where are you meeting these guys? Maybe change the scenery where u meet them. I wouldn't recommend meeting them at the bar.
As far as becoming more appealing.. well I wouldn't advise you to change who you are. All the things you describe is what makes you, you do dont change. When the time is right u will meet a guy who likes you for you. However, the only thing that I see as a possible issue is when u mention u fall easily. That would be fine & dandy if all parties involved are the same way. Unfortunately thats just not reality. Some guys lie & deceive to get what they want. Let it take some time for u to build your trust in a guy. weigh your options. date around. dont just meet a guy, think he's the one & fall for him. take your time & get to know him first. Also, dont just try to impress him. might come across the wrong way. allow him to impress you. think of yourself as a great catch. build up your confidence. at the end of the day just remember dont try too hard. Its either he's the right guy or he's not.0
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