I once liked him, I got rejected because of another girl. I got over him. Now almost a year later we meet again. We attend the same course for a month. He is still single.
He act interested, he stares at me, won't talk to me, but listens to me when I talk, his body language signals that he likes me. However when he's drunk, he is on a hunt for sex. He have already tried getting it from me 3 or 4 times.
I never initials any contact, he is the one that initials all the contact.. So we don't really have much interaction. When we first met in the beginning of the course he waved hi. Today the course finished, when I was done hugging someone goodbye, he took a unsure step towards me and waited for me to react. It is the first time he done that, initial contact like that. Normally he just stand there looking at me.
I don't know when or if we're going to meet again, however I'm really confused. Sober and drunk him do two completely different things. Please help me, I feel like a fly trapped in a spider web. I was once trapped in the web and managed to get free and now I'm trapped again.
Could anyone please tell what is going on in his head? Why is he doing this? I'm quite sure he doesn't like me? But why would he act interested if he isn't?
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Alcohol does not change people. When guys are sober, we know that certain things should not be said, certain actions are not appropriate. Our internal censor controls what we say and do. Alcohol turns off the internal censor and we demonstrate our true feelings. However, the fact that he wants sex when he is intoxicated isn't a horrible thing. If he is not a player/serial dater. . . most guys want to have sex to become closer to a woman, to feel trusted by her, and to know that we are the one who she chooses to bring her pleasure. So, he wants sex before you want sex. . . that's normal. Ask him if he just wants a roll in the hay or if he's going to be there the next morning to take you out to breakfast.0