Im very curious and need a guys perspective on this big one!!!
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Good question and these are the most common.
1.) Comparing your new boyfriend to your old one
2.) Holding him to a higher standard than he's capable of living up to
3.) Assuming he can read your mind
4.) Feeling like a victim and being upset with him for rather unimportant aspects of your relationship. In other words, stop whining if he doesn't bring you flowers or get down on his knees to profess his love to you every day, and instead be grateful he's good to you. Does he treat you well? Does he avoid coming home drunk? Does he restrain from flirting with other women? Those are more important criteria than whether he acts like some charming idiot in the movies. Plus, when guys try and be romantic, it ends up turning girls off, so they're in a no win situation.
5.) Don't nag him if you've had a bad day
6.) Don't think you can change who he is because you can't. If there's something you don't like about a man early on, then you're best to walk away or accept it. Blaming him for being who he is after you've grown tired of the person you already knew he was is BS and will drive a man away in a nanosecond.
7.) And be sure you accept his compliments. If he tells you how pretty you are, then just say "thank you" instead of "no I'm not". That's insulting his taste in women and tells him your self esteem is shit.
Those are just a few.0