I went out with this dude last night whom I met online. We just met up for coffee. I thought it was going well until he walked to my car and said I should "hit him up" if I do something this weekend. Huh? Then tonight he texted me and said he was going to the bars with his buddy and asked if I wanted to come. I'm confused: am I a bro now?
Am I in the "friend zone"?
What Guys Said 4
Sometimes guys will try to play it cool and do the "I'm doing X. Want to come along?" thing as a way to ask her to spend time with him without making it sound super serious.
I'd consider going to one more thing with him, be just a tiny bit flirty, and see how he treats you in response. That should give you a better answer.
(Also, by "online," do you mean an online dating site?)0
yes he's consindering u a friend... is it bad?0
Yes, I think you are friend-zoned.0
He's timid. You either gave him mixed signals and he's wondering the same thing or this is his way of asking you out without risking outright rejection
Too early to tell but I do not think you are in the friend zonej0
What Girls Said 2
If you've only just met maybe he was just as confused. Did yiu give off friend signals?
He asked to hang out I would think that means something or he wouldn't have asked.0
You're not stuck in some silly little "zone": he just doesn't want you romantically. Get over it and move forward instead of lying to yourself about being stuck in a zone when someone just does not want you romantically or sexually.0
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