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But there exist people who that doesn't work for - my v good friend is very looks-oriented. And she met this great guy who had all sorts of things she liked, good personality, etc. But he didn't meet her 'look.' And she tried. She really did. But she just couldn't get that spark going.
OTOH, it wasn't until after my gf and I were dating that I decided that yes, she was physically attractive to me, and my "type" changed to match her. It, as so many things do, depends on the person.