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Many, MANY people are. My buddy was asking me "how do you act so calm and natural around girls, even the stunning ones", so I tried to prove a point by asking him what his problem was with being normal around girls.
I asked him to point out a girl in the area that he thought was attractive and would talk to if he "was like me". He pointed one out, but then I told him to go talk to her. He said "but what if she has a boyfriend?". I said 'So? Neither of us know, so go over and find out'.
He didn't because he was all psyched up. Between this and just the fear/anxiety of trying to talk to someone you're attracted to, people miss so many opportunities by making excuses and not dealing with their issues.1
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