I know in the movies everyone always follows their heart and you get some sappy love story but what about in real life..
Currently in my situation I'm trying to reason between the two
My heart says yes
Logic says: being involved in a cross cultural/ interracial/ inter-relgious relationship could possibly turn out to be the biggest mistake ever, where someone gets burned badly but what do I know I'm only 21
I mean I've seen it work in my own family but that doesn't necessarily mean it's for me
his heart says yes
Where he is mentally is up for debate
- I followed my heart and it worked outVote A
- I followed my heart and I regret itVote B
- I listened to logic, I'm happy with my decisionVote C
- I listened to logic, I regret itVote D
and were happy..
What was your situation
You broke up, remained friends etc?
Most Helpful Girl
I listened to logic, but not how you described. I was sort of into this guy, but I wasn't head over heels. I thought it out logically. This guy really likes me and won't hurt me, so what do I have to lose. I like him, but just not as much as him. I could grow to like him more. I like him as a person a lot, and the person will always be there when the drug isn't. I say, don't listen to WHY IT WON'T WORK OUT. That could be just be you making excuses because you are scared of something. Rather, look at the situation logically. Do you like him because of his body? Or do you actually like the person who he is? What is really holding you back? You need to look at him objectively as a whole person and think about what it is you like about him as a person and don't. If you find you like hik simply because of his looks, it's lust and it will fade. You need to like him as a person, and if you do, it should not matter if he is interracial or whatever. I hope I made sense. :)1