I've been on several dates with this guy and things seemed to be going really well. Over the weekend he was a bit distant and I didn't hear from him as much. Things were meant yesterday though. The thing is that he's now suggseting that he just come over for late night sex until we can hang out on Thursday. I've not even slept with him yet anyway. I feel really quite hurt by this as it seems (at least to me) pretty disrespectful. I mean one day he's saying he really likes me and the next day he's saying he just wants to come over for sex and sending me sexts all day. I'm guessing he probably met someone better, right? I really want to stand up for myself as I'm fed up of guys treating me like this, but I don't know what to say?
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Be straightforward. No beating around the bush... no compromising. Let him know you dont plan to sleep with him (until whenever u feel the time is right). You guys have to discuss this though. He has to know that you're not into casual sex. Dont even worry about if he found someone else or not. Dont be disloyal to yourself while trying to hang on to someone. In the midst of trying to gain someone u can lose yourself.
Always remember that you matter, so dont
be scared to stand up for yourself hun.
Take care :)0